Thursday, April 23, 2009

I am writing this while my husband is on a trip to the Dominican Republic.  He works with a local pastor to help Believers grow.  Our association has partnered with them and have provided several groups there to help with the Work.  It dawned on us that this was his 5th trip in 2 years.  I have not been able to go, mostly because of work and grad school. It really doesn't bother me, except when I am feeling really selfish from 6-7 in the morning.  Currently we have to leave at 6:45 in order to get every to their "places" for the day on time (I am SO GLAD my school is moving to a later time in the fall!!!).   

What it does remind me is to encourage my single parent friends.  I find myself not relaxed when Danny is gone because I have to keep thinking on to the next step or thing that we have to do.  Where is Connor's homework folder?  Has Anna gotten her room cleaned up?  What items are on my list of things to do? etc.....  I have these thoughts on any normal week, but I am a bit tense when Danny is gone because it is MY job to make it all happen.

This is a good reminder also to be grateful for Danny.   He is a super dad and a wonderful help around the home.  It is obvious when he is gone!

The work in the DR is doing well.  Great things are happening there.  We have also noticed that whenever those folks come back home from the DR they have a renewed sense of focus on Dad's work.  This may be the best lesson ever!

3 comments:

Joanna J. said...

It's great that Danny was able to go on this trip! I hope you will survive being alone for a while. If nothing else, you've grown to appreciate him even more!

I had been asked to go on a mission trip to Canada with a music group at TABC this summer, but we decided for me not to go, because I don't think I could be away from Grace for 8 whole days! And while Todd was supportive, he did break out in a light sweat thinking of being a single parent for that long! Things change when you have kids, don't they? Blessings to you!

jennifer said...

I understand. It is a hard decision to make but when you feel comfortable it would be great to go on a mission trip. Maybe one with you and Todd together?!?!

Anonymous said...

thanks for support honey. I miss you too. It's good to be missed.